Love is Custom-Made

Doctor Love

The Love Series Season 2 (Day 7)

I need you to know that every love relationship is unique. That person you love is a unique person, he/she is an individual with absolutely different character traits from the very next person, so there should be no comparison.

With love, please do not, do not ever compare! One person is absolutely different from another and just as well, the love relationship, the intricacies of the love between you and that person, would be absolutely different from any other you have ever had. So no room for comparison!

You learn from other people’s love relationships in books, in documentaries, in audio messages etc. Learn from others – your friends, your parents, your siblings etc but don’t put your spouse or loved one under any pressure to live up to those people’s expectations or the yardsticks those people have set.

Please create your own…

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Love Questions (1)

Doctor Love

The Love Series Season 2 (Day 8)

Question: I am afraid I won’t be able to love my spouse in the nearest future because I suffered abuse while growing up. I didn’t experience love in the family I grew up in. What can I do?

Firstly I want to apologise. I am very sorry that you went through that. No one should ever grow up in a home that there is no love. No should ever suffer abuse whether it is physical, verbal or sexual. No one should ever have to go through that, so I’m really sorry that you went through it in the earlier years of your life. But now, it is time to profer solutions because you need to have a healthy love life.

The first thing I need you to know is that you will have to heal before you can love. You cannot afford to…

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Love Starts With You

Doctor Love

The Love Series Season 2 (Day 1)


I’m starting a series called the Love Series. This is Season 2. I did Season 1 three years ago, in 2016 and by popular demand, I’m doing it again this year. I want to dedicate Season 2 to some of the guys that said I should do this again. Shout out to Alex, to Obinna and to Daniel!!! Thank you guys for giving me the ginger to do this again. I will be talking about love for the next 28days of February.

Please try to follow through. There would be different things I would be talking about. It’s not scripted like it was in Season 1 so I would be freestyling, speaking from my heart. Please just enjoy!

Love Starts With You

Before we begin talking about love as regards other people , as regards what we do or what we don’t…

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